Posted : 6 minutes ago
the-friendless-feminist sent: Sorry but, "Women need to be more responsible for their behavior" DOES mean you're blaming the victim. That's exactly what that's saying. You might not be comfortable acknowledging that that's what you're doing, but it IS what you're doing. Wearing a short skirt doesn't mean you were asking for it. It doesn't mean you deserve it, because you should have known better. Welcome to rape culture, I guess.

I never said anything about how women dress. I said when women engage in unsafe behaviors and don’t think before they do things (like getting so drunk they don’t know what’s going on around them) they are opening themselves up for bad things to happen. I would never put myself in such a dumb situation.

And yes I know that rape, assault, molestation or any other such things can happen in a perfectly “safe” environment among people one thought were friends. What I was simply trying to say is I think people and women particularly need to be held more accountable for their actions. I was never and would never say rape or anything like it is okay. As I said in my submission I don’t believe anyone has the right to touch another person without their consent. I also wasn’t trying to blame the victims contrary to what many people who read the opinion thought. 

It’s a really ignorant logic that the only thing people keep coming out with is we need to educate the men to stop rape from happening. Because while we do need to educate people shouldn’t women be included in that. The world we live in is seriously fucked and unfortunately it will always be that way. No matter what you do or say there will always be people who hurt other people for no other reason than the fact that they derive pleasure from it. 

Women need to take responsibility for themselves and I believe that  includes not putting themselves in situations where assholes are going to take advantage of them. 

Thank you for taking the time to read my opinion and to write me. 

amen

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Religion and Gay Marriage (x)

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i hope so…

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sad but true

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lifeinthefastlaine:

Maybelline “Confidence” ads. SO happy with how the colors in these turned out in printing and matting.

Since this is getting a ton of unexpected attention, I want to clarify that these are not real Maybelline ads. They are a concept for a class I am in.

The thing make up ads should really be saying. 

“When the winds of change blow, some people build walls and others build windmills.”

-Chinese proverb


“Look again at that dot. That’s here. That’s home. That’s us. On it everyone you love, everyone you know, everyone you ever heard of, every human being who ever was, lived out their lives. The aggregate of our joy and suffering, thousands of confident religions, ideologies, and economic doctrines, every hunter and forager, every hero and coward, every creator and destroyer of civilization, every king and peasant, every young couple in love, every mother and father, hopeful child, inventor and explorer, every teacher of morals, every corrupt politician, every “superstar,” every “supreme leader,” every saint and sinner in the history of our species lived there-on a mote of dust suspended in a sunbeam. 
” 
― Carl SaganPale Blue Dot: A Vision of the Human Future in Space

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Posted : 7 hours ago with 55 notes | Reblog
tags: #jobs

richbitchdress:

catelynstarking:

i feel as though the job hunt is an ongoing process of stripping away your very humanity and making you forget that you have ever done anything worthwhile with your life



if i don’t get some chocolate soon i think i may kill 

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Anonymous sent: as a rape victim, I AGREE WITH YOU. it's like never locking your door and acting surprised when your shit gets stolen.

I can be dense sometimes, so I hope I’m not missing some underlying sarcasm or something but I really appreciate that you took the time to message me.

I haven’t been a victim of rape though I was molested as a child. I’m not saying it’s the same thing just that I know in my own way what it’s like to feel helpless. I wasn’t trying bash people who’ve been through such things or condone rape in anyway. It’s just I have a teenage sister who has put herself in very dangerous situations before. Thankfully nothing too bad has happened but it’s a large part in why I think the way I do. I’m not saying that women go around asking to be raped and I think it’s great to have a good time, but I also think in the world we live in we have to think. I don’t see why people found this opinion so offensive that I’m suggesting that women look out for themselves. Anyway thank you so much for taking the time to read my opinion and message me. It means a lot. <3

My submission. Forgive the typo. I made it in like 5 secs before submit ended (if you go to unpopular-opinions you know what i’m talking about). 

Anyway I think people who have commented on this thus far have assumed things about this that I never intended. Just because I think women need to be more responsible for themselves and not put themselves in really dangerous situations, does not mean I don’t think it’s also highly possible for rape to happen in a safe place with friends for family either. Also I know that men get raped too and I am definitely not condoning rape or violence in anyway with this opinion. I am simply saying that going out and doing stupid dangerous things is asking for trouble. 

No one is going to protect you 24/7 in this world. Ultimately if you  want to try and limit the bad things from happening to you, you have to look out for yourself. 

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how did i never think of this o_o

too much me

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David Bowie

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